From april1209 |
Welcome to warm days and pleasant evenings. Gail and I often walk around and gush at how much we love China because of the warm weather.
I've been making a sincere effort at taking it easier these days. It's funny to me how I seem to manage to create a whirlwind of work, public appearances, commitments, and what not on a whim. It takes some self discipline to just say "no" to things and relax. I have to remember that it really isn't about the money and that it's about TIME. Yes, I know the old adage nipping at our Laowai behinds "time=money".
From april1209 |
Still, how can I put a value on being able to just "chill" by the Koi pond and listen to water fall? At what price do I dare collect being apart from my wife?
I have to remind myself of why I got into the teaching abroad game, FREEDOM. Freedom that comes from having time to read the books I enjoy reading. Freedom that comes from having the time to post what you see before you here. (And dear reader, your time is valuable too.)
From april1209 |
I suggest that you brace yourself as I have done and say "no" to that next externalized commitment. I know times are tough and we are apt to get a bit nervy about job security, savings, etc. Again, where is the real value in your life? I relish the time I have to "examine my navel", explore my ideas, question my faith, whatever. Coming to China was about something more than trying to make money. My wife has the right idea and heart to greet everyone she sees and proclaim out loud "Wo ai Zhongor" (I love China). It's a manner of what we focus on that continually manifests itself in our lives. (Being sick and watching the entire third season of HBO's Big Love will remind anyone of this.)
From april1209 |
I wish you the best and know that I do miss you. You're welcome to come and experience TIC (This Is China) anytime.